Tag Archives: couples
You Go First: Heroic Relationship Change
Do you know the number one killer of relationship change and growth in my practice? It’s when both partners say, in some fashion: “I’ll change when he/she changes.” Think about this for a minute. What’s the likely outcome of this … Continue reading
Posted in Hitch Fix, Relationships, The Change Process
Tagged change, couples, Relationships, vulnerability
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Finding Shared Meaning In Holiday Conflict
I wanted the multi-colored lights. I didn’t want to discuss it; I just desperately wanted multi-colored lights on the tree. In my family, we always used multi-colored lights. And strung popcorn-cranberry chains. And placed an angel on the top. I … Continue reading
8 Conversation Tips When It’s Your Turn To Speak
Most of us don’t have too much trouble speaking our mind in an argument (much easier than listening, yes?). But, if we’re honest, we have to admit that we could all use a little tune-up in the style department, some … Continue reading
Posted in Communication, Hitch Fix, Life Lines
Tagged communication, couples, Relationships, self-improvement
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Starting Over When We Forget
Imagine you’re in a committed partnership with someone you love very much. Imagine that, although things aren’t always perfect, you’re happy and confident in your love and your life with this person, and have a wealth of memories to remind … Continue reading
Posted in Hitch Fix, Relationships
Tagged breaking up, change, couples, divorce, loneliness, loss, Relationships, staying together
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